The hypocrisy of South Asian families - women have a chance?

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As a British born Asian woman of 27 years, I have observed from childhood to the activities of a family of Asians in terms of level of honor, for the operation of the "extended family". In my childhood, if I remember correctly, it was beautiful, I think. However, I feel that reflected on some events, maybe I'm the person I am today ... bitter and twisted mind! Yes, I admit. I come from a family of five children in general, I have the hypocrisy of men and observedThe women of these families, in the sense that equality does not exist. Yes, yes, there! The reason for this is that the mothers of families, their children differently, and the failure of any child's never hidden.

For example, if you're a smart kid, believe me know! And if you're a smart kid, and you know! There is no such thing as "political correctness" or sensitivity in Asian family! Boys and girls areloved very different with boys and weighted 24 / 7 and the girls should remain calm and obey treaties. This seems rather difficult to remain at this age, but it happened, but certainly more subtle. Example: a daughter / sister, can work, study and exit (Exit limited obviously) and also a son / brother does the same but the difference lies in the additional responsibilities required for each sex. Women: as a sociologist has found an old Dual / TripleShift, while the men ... Zilch.

Asian girls should be educated to university level, has a good experience and committed at the same time, household responsibilities and child care when children are involved. Moreover, they are always, always carry the weight of the world and to maintain the family honor. This I can do a good honest woman, dressed appropriately, at events with their mothers, cooking and cleaning, etc. Men, on the otherInspection Manual for a 'relaxing working hard. "Why is a woman working the same hours of a man is treated differently because of work and an Asian woman, studying and then go home to domestic responsibilities, and why do that men holding mouth fed by their parents, if it returns, as has happened? you are guilty of women? Yes, there are women us load and create these selfish people who raise us and hang in return receive constant criticismand memories, as they are disappointing.

OK, so where is the hypocrisy to all these questions are? Now, Asians born with double standards. In principle, a rule for them and another for women around them. Well, this is not just for mothers with two weights and two men, but women also support these standards, that is! Without someone to demonize, and in particular I would point. The daughters are in this modern society of learning, as might be expected to do everything! But when youcomes to them, their interests, to follow cultural norms come into play and set in the near future, a woman in her place with lines like "is not the right thing for girls to do this, they say, is" certainly not marriage, etc. and then comes into play. Yes, another factor! "If you want to monitor your interests to get married, then your husband will help you." WHAT?

Women in Asian culture are allowed, and often do what they want their parents to the restrictions imposed by. ThoughThis happens only when it suits everyone else in the family. The bottom line is, women have no respect in society and in Asia as a whole family, it is obvious, as is evident from the fact. As an older woman is in Asian culture, it becomes a burden to their family if they can not marry. Basically, families that become too big! Shocking eh? But this is the brutal truth. Parents love their children, but in this modern society, remains the hidden suffering of women.Asian families their children in favor of greater interest and contempt for the interests of their daughters to be a hardship for the community as a whole. Expectations are set by an Asian family to live especially for daughters, but not for children. This is the hypocrisy of Asian families here today.